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My mind is officially blown.

I’m sure many of you are familiar with Tony Memmel.  Tony was born missing his let arm just like me.  If you’re not familiar with Tony, watch this video.  I remember watching it and immediately saying, “I need to meet this guy.”

So, I made this video (pre-livingonehanded.com!):

Ryan Haack ‘One Week To Philadelphia’ and Introduction from Ryan Haack on Vimeo.

Yeah, I did that.  And it worked!  Tony I met in October last year (read about it here) and I blame, er, credit that video completely.  Tony is a great guy and I’m incredibly excited to watch his career as a musician unfold.  Amazing talent!

And while that’s cool, this is what’s blowing my mind:

The other day Tony’s mom, Katie, found a newspaper put out by the Children’s Hospital back in 1988.  That’s 24 years ago.  Who was on the front page?  Yours truly.  Playing a recorder.

I guarantee I never played the recorder with that arm besides when this picture was taken.

And who was on page 2?  You guessed it!  Tony Memmel!

Look at that cute kid!

 That’s right.  24 years ago, Tony Memmel and I occupied page 1 and 2 of the same newspaper.  24 years later we met for the first time.

That is insane.

And I, for one, am proud to call Tony a friend and look forward to a lifetime of dominating newspapers together.

Twins! Ok, not so much.

“Daddy, your eyes are red.  Were you crying?”

Yes, sweetheart.  Daddy was crying.

I finally watched Dolphin Tale (with my kids) tonight and it was fantastic.  The story was wonderful, the acting superb and the message…do I even need to say how much I enjoyed the message?  And while the movie itself made me tear-up a couple times (especially when Winter showed her tail to Kyle), what really set me off was something my daughter Anna said.

At the end they show some documentary footage of people meeting Winter and at one point a little boy with two prosthetic legs walks out to the pool.  I watched Anna’s eyes get big as he came into view and she whispered, “Whoa…COOL.”  Her response made me so proud.

I gathered the kids around me after the movie and we talked about how we should treat people who are different than us.  At one point in the movie there was a little African-American girl in a wheelchair and she only had one leg.  When she was “revealed,” my son Sam said, “Creepy!”  I cringed.  But, it was an incredible opportunity to teach him about how to react appropriately when he sees people who are different.  He totally got it, too.  “I didn’t really mean ‘creepy.’ It just surprised me!” he said.  We talked about how people can be different shapes and sizes and colors, but we’re all people who have feelings and deserve respect.  Even though people may look different, they are living life just like we are.

“Yeah, like you, dad!  You do things different, but you can do whatever you want!” Sam declared.

They’re coming around.  They’re making me proud.

Thanks, Winter, for creating an opportunity to teach my kids about accepting everyone as they are.

Tell about your Dolphin Tale experience!  (Read about Jordan’s amazing experience here!)

Step 1: Put on a pair of pants that have pockets in the back (that close with a button).

Step 2: Try to button the back left pocket with your right hand.

Yeah.

That’s what happened to me the other day.  I was at work and noticed that my back left pocket was unbuttoned.  It was bothering the heck out of me.  My right obliques hurt because I was trying so hard to get at that dang button.  It’s not like I could ask a co-worker to button it for me, ya know?  Honestly, I almost went into the bathroom to take my pants off just to button that pocket.

And what was the big deal, anyway?  It’s not like I even keep anything in that pocket.

In case you weren’t aware (though the domain may have given it away), I only have one hand.  It’s the right one.  So, all my left pockets are unused.  And this is just one of the situations I encounter on a daily basis as a man who is living one-handed.

And this is the first post of what I’m sure will be hundreds.

Soon I’ll be posting videos of myself doing things one-handed (by popular demand) and I’ll be writing a lot about my experiences growing-up and living as a one-handed person.  I want this to be interactive and hope you’ll give your input and perspective.  I hope you’ll ask questions, too!  I hope you’ll laugh and cry and learn and be encouraged…

I hope you’ll find this to be a place of humor, help and hope.

– Ryan

P.S. To add insult to injury, there wasn’t even a button to button!  IT WAS MISSING.  Sheesh.

Missing Button

Time for some new pants.