Helping Hands Foundation Winter Outing 2013: The Wrap-Up

Sunday morning came too quickly.

And I mean that both literally and figuratively.

(Read about Friday and Saturday, too)

Tony and I had breakfast, said our good-byes and were out the door by 9am. On the way to the airport, we drove past Fenway, which was cool, but I’ll need to get back for a game sometime. The flight home was uneventful, although, I fell asleep so hard that I slept through the entire descent and only woke-up on impact when we landed. I thought it was turbulence.

Bye, Boston!

Bye, Boston!

Then I drove home in a snow storm (stopped at Kopp’s for lunch), hugged and kissed the fam…and then passed out for the rest of the night.

Fin.

Now, let me give some props to some peeps (I’m so relevant!) and then give you my overall takeaways from the weekend.

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Helping Hands Foundation Winter Outing 2013: Saturday

Saturday was amazing.

If Friday at the Helping Hands Foundation’s Winter Outing was mashed potatoes, then Saturday was the gravy.  Tons and tons of gravy.

Because gravy is awesome.

Anyway…

The morning started early when our featured speaker, Meg Zucker, took the stage.  I’d written for Meg’s blog last year, but this was the first time I got to meet her in person and she was wonderful!  Her husband and kids came with her and got to beam at her with pride from the crowd.  Her message was encouraging, funny, practical and resonant with everyone in the room!  Meg has a way of disarming you, making you comfortable and drawing you in.

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Helping Hands Foundation Winter Outing 2013

You know what kind of friendships you can forge in less than 48 hours?

The kind that will last a lifetime.

This weekend I had the opportunity to join over 300 other people at the Helping Hands Foundation‘s winter outing in Massachusetts.  The HHF is an organization that connects families of children with upper limb-loss.  In a word, the experience was life-changing.  And to think I almost didn’t go!  In fact, until about two weeks ago I wasn’t going.  So glad I changed my mind.

Friday started with a bang, too.  The plan was for me to wake-up at 4:45am, get ready and leave the house at 5:30am to catch the 6:10am bus to Milwaukee.  I shot out of bed at 5:43am.  It was like a PG-13 version of Home Alone.  A hard PG-13.  I was determined to still make the bus and really thought I would, but ended-up getting there just in time to see the bus pull away.  It helped me answer the question, “Would you rather watch your team get blown out or lose on a last-second field goal?”  Blown out.  No question.

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The Day I Became A Dad For The First Time

Today is my son’s birthday.  He makes me so proud.  He’s smart and funny and kind and sensitive.  He’s a good friend.  He’s an amazing young man.

My Sam

My Sam

This is something I wrote some years ago about Sam’s birthday.  I thought about editing it and I probably will at some point…but, not this year.

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Lady and the Bing

One of the things I love about being “that one-handed guy” is that I get notifications instantly whenever someone who is living one-handed is in the media.

Last night was a prime example of this.

Not only was Sarah Herron DOMINATING “The Bachelor” (that sounds weird, but I’m sticking with it), I was informed by a multitude of people that there was a lady on “Wheel of Fortune” who had one hand, too!  And in quite possibly one of the weirdest coincidences ever in the history of mankind, the opponent next to her was named…BING.  Yes, a man named BING was next to the woman who was spinning the wheel one-handed.

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The Day Haiti Shook

Today is the anniversary of the ‘quake that shook Haiti. Many of you might not know that I was in Haiti back then and left the country the evening before it hit. This is a piece I wrote in 2012 (slightly edited) that gives you an idea of how the events unfolded and affected me. I have friends in Haiti today (on a mission trip) and am thinking about them. And I miss my buddy, Jameley. A lot.

It’s the anniversary of the earthquake in Haiti.

Today I’m remembering that day in 2010.  I’m remembering how it affected me personally and how it devastated a group of people I love.

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Was Sarah Herron Really Born With Only One Arm?

Ladies and gentlemen, we have a bit of controversy.

On the newest and bestest version of ABC’s “The Bachelor,” Sarah Herron, the patron saint of all limb-different women, said she was…brace yourself…”born with one arm.”

GASP!  But she doesn’t only have one arm!  She has, like, one and a HALF arms!

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The adorable Sarah Herron and the hunky Sean Lowe.

Seriously, I’ve had a number of people ask my opinion about what she said, so here we go…

First of all, Sarah can describe herself however she wants.  Let’s just get that out of the way right off the top.  If that’s the term she’s comfortable with, then that’s her prerogative.  My stance on how a person with a limb-difference is described, or how they describe themselves, has changed over time and it may very well do so again at some point.  For now, though, my stance is this:

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